I believe that we all have at some point or another have experienced such adversity that we have to question exactly what it is we're persisting for. You know, those times when you just want to say screw it (all thought not so nicely in those words), when you've had enough, when the odds appear to just not be going in your favor, when you're ready to crack. Yeah, those times. I mean you literally do stand this line and look at both sides and MAKE A CHOICE to persist. Why? What are the driving forces behind it?
www.Dictionary.com (one of my all time favorite websites....I'm not the best speller and I need help with grammar too) Persistence: continued existence or occurrence. Persisting: to continue steadfastly or firmly in some state, purpose, course of action, or the like, especially in spite of opposition, to last or endure tenaciously, to be insistent in a statement, request, question, etc.
Tenacious, oh how I love that word. Looking back at life I've yet to have a tenacious moment that didn't pay off big. What about you? Take stock of your accomplishments and transcendence moments in life. What moments did you act tenaciously?
Yes, there are even those of us out there who've had it worse than others and struggle to persist at every never ending blow that life gives them. You know, the ones with the 'black clouds' following them around, always beating life's storms. They are the true champions. No doubt, we all have to choose to fight. It's a choice to decide to dig deep. When we do, we gather and we shine.
To persist is a choice, just as it's a choice to live a life full of your gifts and passions. Persistence takes courage to execute. It's a sure self esteem builder too. Looking at the roll acceptance plays in the journey, it's pretty clear to understand that in order to persist you have to first accept whatever it is that's going on and become present. I may sound redundant with the in depth analysis of acceptance, becoming present and choosing gratitude but the longer I practice this little mantra, the more I see it as a useful strategy in every area of my life. It astounds me that I just didn't 'get this' sooner.
Why am I so astounded that I'm telling everyone who will hear me out this a, b, c stuff? For years I've understood that it's not what we have, who we are in life, where we live or what we're doing that brings joy. I long ago got the perspective is key and attitude is everything lesson. This is probably why Dale Carnegie's words ring true with me so much. He says,“It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about." Ding, ding, ding! We have a winner! Just another example of universal knowledge being shared. I call that universal affirmation. :)
"Belief consists in accepting the affirmations of the soul; unbelief, in denying them." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
If we didn't have the adversity to transcend then we'd never get the message of the lesson. If we don't persist and give up, we just quit learning. Boring. Game over. Really, is that how you want to choose to live the last years of your life? For me time passes quickly when I'm jumping life's hurdles. Do I welcome them with zest and cheer? Uh, no. Do I fight against them as long as I used to in the past. Definitely not. So, at least I'm practicing what I'm so astonished over.
Does it mean I don't feel lost at times? No. I was thinking about this recently given the changes in my own personal life as of late. I know what I'm passionate about. I know what I persist for. Do you? I'd actually gotten to the point where I'm learning to accept feeling lost. Then the universe opened up with an affirmation. How was my friend to know what I needed to hear just as how I'm supposed to know what she most needed to hear when I share such things? Exactly, the universe at play. No other way around it. :) Here's the affirmation of my acceptance on feeling lost and questioning persistence.
"It is good to feel lost because it proves you have a navigational sense of where "Home" is. You know that a place that feels like "being found" exists. And maybe your current location isn't that place but, Hallelujah, that unsettled, uneasy feeling of lost-ness just brought you closer to it."
- Online Somewhere
(Thanks for posting Kel! Seriously, I can't say it enough, good stuff!)
Coincidences, love them or hate them, they get your attention.
When I choose to persist I have to let go of the ego, of the past, of daydreaming the future. I have to choose to be of good mind and in the moment at hand. This focus on the moment at hand is what allows me to execute that which I set out to do. No matter what, life is forever changing. My choice to grow through those changes is an option. I must be willing to learn to grow.
So, as for those coincidences that occur when I persist, I'm just grateful for them. Einstein believed they were/are Gods way of being anonymous. I often see them as affirmations that I'm on the right path and with the right people. Others think they're a mystery not to be solved, a puzzle to admire and keep at a distance. Many more believe that they're lessons to be learned, things for us to take notice of. No matter what, they're amusing and the make the journey more enjoyable so I'll keep being grateful for them.
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